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efO alxgLx? k9fpFb} x'g'x'G5  . ;fgf] hflu/ 5 . s;/L lbg' x'G5 / < km]l/ d SofDk; k9\b} 5', To;sf nflu s]xL g s]xL ;xof]u u/L /xg' ePsf] afafn] dfq ljhon] s] eGg kfPls lyOg, P, Ps b'O{ dlxgfsf] lkm; lt/]kl5 ;a} x'g] /}5 x}g tFnfO{ . nf} hf dfOtdf eGb} nfQfn] xfg] . leqaf6 aflx/ lgsfnL lbP . ?+b} dfOtdf uP+ . k9\g nfu]+ . slxn] sf+xL 5f]/f]nfO{ x]g{ dg nfu]/ 3/ hfg] u/]+ t/ b'O{/ft eGbf tLg/ft a:g g} kfOg . slxn] dft]/ cfpg] . slxNo] c? g} s]6Lsf xftx? ;dft]/ cfpg] =====.  cGtt yfxf kfPF, p;n] cs}{;+u lajfx g} u/L ;s]sf] /x]5 . dnfO{ df]afOndf eGof] xf] d}n] laafx u/]+ . ;S5]; eg] t}n] klg u/ . gq t8lkP/ d/ .

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3/]n" lx+;f jf kfl/jfl/s laafbsf] ;Gbe{df k/]sf] of] d'2f Ps pbfx/0f dfq xf] . dfgj k|fl0fsf lardf ;a}eGbf a9L Psn] csf]{nfO{ lrGg] eg]sf klt klTg g} x'g . h:n] Ps csf{sf] cfgLafgL dfq x}g . x/]s c+uk|To+usf af/]df yfxf kfO ;s]]sf x'G5g\ . sxFf 5 sdhf]/L jf sxFf sxFf 5 ;jn kIf eGg] klg a'em]sf x'G5g\ . oLgLx?sf larsf] 4G4 :jefljs ?kdf a9L 3fts x'G5 . o:tf]df Psn] csf]{nfO{ sdhf]/ agfp5' eGg' b'a} g} sdhf]/ x'g' xf] . ;lsb}g dfG5]sf] Ouf] . Ps kl5 csf]{ ub}{ cfuf] aNb} hfG5 / hNb} hfG5 afFsL /x]sf] lhGbuL klg . gftf ;DaGwL cfkmGtx?sf] cxd\ e"ldsf x'G5 kfl/jfl/s laafbnfO{ sd Iflt lagfsf] cGTo jf Joj:yfkgsf nflu .

st} :jf:gL dflg;sf] sdhf]/L, st} nf]Ug] dflg;sf] sdhf]/L jf st} kfl/jfl/s kl/j]zsf] sdhf]/L jf st} ufFp ;dfhsf] kl/j]z cflb ljljw sdhf]/L jf cj:yfn] cf/De x'G5g kfl/jfl/s laafbx? / ;do d} Aoj:yfkg ug{ ;lsPg eg] dfly eg] h:t} aNg dfq x}g afFsL /x]sf] lhGbuLnfO{ g} hnfpg k'Ub5 To;n] . lrg]sf] rf]/n] Hofg lnG5 eGg] g]kfnL efiffsf] pvfgsf] cy{ h:t} 3fts x'g k'Ub5 slxn] sfFxL .

v'nf ;dfhsf] gfpFdf cfjZostf eGbf a9L :jtGqtf vf]Hg], ;dfg ;fDklQs clwsf/sf] cf8df kn kndf clwsf/sf] s'/f ug]{, bfloTj lgaf{x gu/L clwsf/sf] dfq bfaf / pkef]usf] lbzfdf nfUg], b]vfl;sL u/Lhf cfl/z] dl/hfsf] z}nLdf hLjgnfO{ n}hfg vf]Hg], ofjt sf/0fx? b]lvG5g\ o;k|sf/sf laafbx?df . sd ;f:tL jf sd Ifltsf ;fy o;sf] Aoj:yfkgsf] cfwf/ d]nldnfk g} xf] . rfx} cfTdcfnf]rgfsf ;fy bfDkTo hLjgnfO{ k'g{hLjLt agfpg] ;fd'lxs k|of;df xf]; jf cnu cnu /x]/ hLjg ;~rfngsf] af6f] g} lsg gxf]; . b'a} sf]0faf6 o;sf] k6fIfksf] af6f] d]nldnfk g} xf] . slt lbg lbg] Psn] csf]{nfO{ b'v < csf]{sf] hLjgnfO{ b' Vv lbg] gfpFdf jf axfgfdf cfkm}n] klg b' Vv kfpg] slt lbg < hLGbuL sd lk8f jf sd b'Vdf hLpg] k|of;df /xg' jf x'g' kb{5 ;a}sf] .

3/]n" l+x;f+sf laafbdfM laz]iftM dlxnfdfly x'g] 3/]n" l+x;fsf] dfdnfdf Tof] laafb uxg dfq x}gg\, Ps k|sf/n] l3gf}gL klg b]lvG5 ulxl/P/ x]bf{ . k'?ifn] slyt k'?ifTjsf] gfpFdf slt;Dd bdg / oftgf lbFbf] /x]5 < cWoog Ps cfofd ag]sf] cg'e"lt x'G5 dflysf] kq k9\bf . dfoFf / of}lgs ;DaGw b'a} gkfpg] xf] eg] s;}sf] >LdtL eP/ a:g'sf] s] cy{ x'G5 < bf;TjeGbf klg tnsf] l:ylt x}g / Tof] < sxfF afFsL /xG5 klt klTgsf] ;DaGwsf] laGb" To; cj:yfdf < sf] :jf:gL dflg; x'g' s] lk8f dfq af]s]/ a:g' xf] / < slt lgb{oL aGbf /x]5g\ s]xL k'?ifx? < h:sf] k]6df gf} dlxgf af; a;]/ hGd]sf] aRrf xf] . p;sf] s]xL klg of]ubfg jf e"ldsf gx'g] /] < p;n] kfPsf] Psl5g\sf] dhfsf] dfq kl/0ffd /] < k'?ifsf] slyt kf}?ifTj /utsf] l56f cem hLg s] hflt s] /] < To:tf k'?ifx?sf] a'emf{O{df dfgf} :jf:gL dflg; t s]jn sf/vfgf dfq xf],hxf+ sRrf kbfy{ xflnlbof] dfn lg:sG5 a;\ .

g]kfnL ;dfhsf 3/]n" lx+;fsf laljw ?kdx? 5g\M -!_ ;f;', ;;'/f, b]j/ / gGbx?n]  a'xf/Lx? jf efph'x?nfO{ u/]sf lx+F;fx?, -@_ kltn] kTgLnfO{ u/]sf lx+;fx? -#_ bfh'efO{n] lbbL alxgLx?nfO{ u/]sf lx+;fx?, -$_ h]7fgLx?n] b]p/fgLx?nfO{ u/]sf lx+;fx? -%_ ;f}tfn] ;f}tfnfO{ u/]sf lx+;fx? -^_ Psn dlxnfdfly x'g] u/]sf 3/]n" lx+;fx? qmdzM a9L 5g\ .

lkt[;QfDs ;dfhsf] rl/q ePsf :yfgdf o;k|sf/sf 3/]n" lx+;fx? a9L x'G5g\ eg] s]xL sd dfqfdf ePklg -!_ kTgLn] kltnfO{ u/]sf lx+;fx? -@_ lbbL alxgLx?n] bfh'efOx?nfO{ u/]sf lx+;fx? -#_ Psn k'?if dfly x'g] u/]sf lx+;fx? klg gkfOg] x}g . hlt hlt :jtGqtf / r]tgfsf] ;do cfO/x]sf] 5, Tolt Tolt 3/]n" lx+;fsf 36gfx? a9L ePsf] nfUb} hfg]5 . o;sf] sf/0fdf klxnf] xf] —lautdf x'g] u/]sf 3/]n" lx+;fsf 36gfx? aflx/ gcfpg] jf cfPklg vf;} pkrf/ jf ;xfg'e"lt gkfpg] . bf];|f] xf] — clwsf/ k|ltsf] ;r]gtf  . 4G4 lasf;sf] cjZodefjL kf6f] xf] o;nfO{ df}s}df Aoj:yfkg ug'{ h?/L 5 eGg] ga'em\g] xf] eg] 3/]n" lx+;fn] c? lxF;f a9fpg] jf c? c? 4G4sf 3fpx?df klg g'g r's r9fpg] x'g] 5g\ . 3/]n" lx+;fnfO{ a]n}df cGt ug'{ h?/L 5 .

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